Choose the third wisely when having threesome with your husband

Choosing the third might be the most important steps in having a threesomes with your husband. Choosing a unicorn with good personalities would lead to a successful threesomes, while a self-centered one will only leave you with bad memories. There is one more thing often neglected by many people. Choosing a wrong third cannot only ruin your tinder for couples, worst of all, it would destroy your relationship. Therefore, you must be careful with the person you choose and be careful when you choose to make sure your relationship won’t be influenced by that person.

The reason I put that much emphasize on choosing the third is that I learned my lesson on it. Back in six months ago when my husband firstly suggested to have a threesome dating together, we had a nice and steady relationship. Being an open person myself, I agreed to it. Having threesome is indeed a nice way to make a change with our sexual routine. I had threesomes before we were married with another guy who was my boyfriend back them. It was not so fun as I imagined, but not so bad. My husband and I never had threesome together, so I thought this might be a nice start and I was resolved to make it better than the last time I had.

When choosing the third, we had many options. We went to different bars and try to find someone there. It is really not easy to find someone we both like and also is interested in having a real threesomer with us. It turned out that threesome is after all not so common for most people. So we turned to tinder for swingers app, the method we used to despite. It took us nearly a month to find the right person. At least, we thought she was the right person.

The girl was pretty and very outgoing. She had several times of threesomes, so we thought she would teach us a little. We did have some great threesomes together. However, recently, she texted me that my husband made a pass on her, so she wouldn’t be our threesomer partner anymore. Luckily, I knew that incident between her and my husband.

Several days ago, my husband came to me awkwardly. He said that the girl might not have threesome with us anymore. He just came home from work. It turned out that he ran into the girl at his company. She came to find him in his office and asked if he would like to have dinner with her. Obviously, she had a crush on my husband. My husband refused immediately and told her that maybe she shouldn’t be our threesome partner anymore, since it might influence our marriage. The girl left disappointedly.

My husband told me the whole process and I agreed with his solutions. When I saw that text, I had a moment doubt. Who was telling the truth? I choose to trust my husband, because I believe in my choice. Also, I realized how a third can damage a relationship or even a family.