Can a Threesome Ruin a Relationship?

Many people who are interested in having a threesome with their partner share one common concern. Can a threesome ruin my relationship with her?

The answer is no. It can’t. threesome cannot ruin your relationship. Firstly, it depends on how you bring it to the table and how she responds. For example, if you just say it casually, honey, let’s have a threesome with transgender girl. She may think that you just want to have sex with another woman, or you are tired or her. But if you say, hon, I think it would be very hot to see to with another girl. She would imagine the scene of her with another girl. No matter it is out of curiosity or just wants to satisfy you, she might consider it seriously. But if your partner is a very conventional and consistent one, asking for a threesome could half-screw your relationship. Threesome is definitely not a conventional practice for a usually monogamous couple. If she is not naturally open to this idea, then it is almost a lost game from the beginning, because the resistance of this idea is already there. Even if she accepts and does this with you, it doesn’t mean she is fine with it, but may due to the love or she afraid of losing you. After the experience is consumed, it would cover her with a shadow, which will eventually explode. There are a small group of people who prefer a trans threesome with a transgender woman included. You should be more careful in this case. Ask her opinion about transgender first. If she is negative about them, do not ask a trans woman to join you.

Second, whether a threesome can ruin your relationship or not also depends on how you do it and how you react after it. A successful threesome can bring each other closer. If she totally accepts it, let her pick the other woman. This is very important if you don’t want feelings get hurt. After that, you should sit and discuss boundaries and make sure everyone is on the same page. What do you want and what is forbidden. When you actually do it, remember to be considerate, more to your partner. She will need extra attention. Always ask her feelings. If she doesn’t feel comfortable, do not be hesitate to stop. If you happily finish it, ask her feelings. How are you feeling? Do you like the woman with us? Do you like the threesome? In other word, you need to make her be sure of the fact that you love her and only care for her. If she likes it, you can bring is up again when necessary.

In conclusion, never force your partner to have a threesome if she is not fully okay with it. Even if she is, you both need to be confident enough to accept that fact that he/she will be having sex with another person. The most important thing is to be considerate to each other while enjoy it.